What to Do When You’re Running on Empty
Last week, I shared an article about common energy drains many women in midlife face—stress, overcommitment, poor sleep, and more. It resonated with many of you who are feeling stretched thin and running on empty. The good news? There are simple, sustainable ways to start replenishing your energy, even in small moments throughout the day!
Here are eight practical tips to help you raise your energy and feel more vibrant, all without a major life overhaul.
1. Track Your Energy
Start by tuning in. Pay attention to your energy levels throughout the day. Notice what activities (or even which people) leave you feeling drained versus those that lift you up. You can jot this down in a notebook or just on your calendar. Over time, you’ll spot patterns that help you prioritize what fuels you—and minimize what doesn’t.
2. Move Your Body
Exercise doesn’t have to be intense to be helpful. Even gentle movement like walking, stretching, or yoga can increase circulation and oxygen flow, which naturally supports higher energy levels. The key is consistency and choosing activities that you enjoy, so it feels energizing rather than just another chore on your to-do list.
3. Fuel Yourself with Real Food
Your body’s energy is deeply connected to how you nourish it. Focus on foods that stabilize your blood sugar—like lean proteins, healthy fats, leafy greens, and colorful vegetables. Try to limit sugar and processed carbs, which can lead to energy crashes. Small, steady changes in your diet can make a big difference in how you feel throughout the day. The summer farmer’s markets are bursting with options! Make time to visit one soon.
4. Laugh More
Laughter is a surprisingly powerful energy booster. It reduces stress hormones, increases feel-good endorphins, and brings an instant shift in perspective. Adults laugh way less than children do, which is a pity because it’s so good for us! Watch a funny video, call a friend who always makes you smile, or revisit a favorite sitcom. A good laugh can lift your energy in just a few minutes.
5. Take Small Breaks
We often power through the day without pausing, but short breaks can help you be more productive and feel more energized. Step outside for a few deep breaths, stretch, or simply rest your eyes for 5–10 minutes. The goal is to reset your nervous system and return to your tasks with fresh energy. And if you’re a nap person (I’m not) consider a quick nap to restore your energy.
6. Limit Exposure to Negative People
Let’s be honest—some relationships are simply exhausting. Emotional energy is real, and people who constantly complain, criticize, or drain your attention can take a toll. Protecting your energy may mean setting boundaries or limiting time with those who leave you feeling depleted. Save your precious energy for the people and relationships that support you.
7. Cut Back on Alcohol
While that evening glass of wine may feel relaxing in the moment, alcohol can disrupt your sleep and leave you feeling sluggish the next day. If you’re feeling consistently low-energy, consider reducing your alcohol intake and noticing how your body responds. Better rest often means better energy. I’ve made a new commitment this year to only drink on weekends and social events and it’s making a big difference in my sleep quality!
8. Put Yourself First
So many women in midlife are used to putting others first—at work, at home, in their communities. But chronic self-sacrifice can lead to burnout. Start by looking at your calendar. Where are you saying “yes” when your energy is saying “no”? Reclaiming your energy often starts with permission: to rest, to say no, and to prioritize your own well-being.
In Closing
Energy isn’t just about sleep or diet—it’s about alignment. When you begin tuning in to what energizes you, setting boundaries around what doesn’t, and making small, consistent changes, your vitality returns.
You deserve to feel good in your body and your life. Start with one of the tips above this week and notice the shift.
